Bloggers who dare to divulge

Who knew that blogging took courage? Well, probably everyone who has overcome self-doubt to the point of publishing a weblog! But within this group are a few who push the envelope on bravery even further. They dare to divulge their imperfections, their fears and struggles with utter honesty.

I admire that. While most blog evangelists advocate using the blogosphere to establish oneself as an expert -- and, to clarify, I'm NOT bashing that use; it's a very smart way for consultants and businesses to go -- some brave souls use their blogs to reveal their deepest humanity. Counter to current trends, these bloggers openly admit that they don't have all the answers, but they are willing to start the discussions about personal challenges that certainly others also struggle with.

By revealing their battles -- and so very publicly -- they show me that it's okay to be less than perfect, physically or mentally. They offer a means in which together we can explore human frailties and coping or success strategies. The gift of these brave bloggers is in opening the dialogue. A dialogue where synergies can be born. And, where I believe, where real solutions are found.

What could be more inspirational?

One of these courageous bloggers is Cheryl Wright. I've been reading Cheryl's Perspectives on Life for several months now. Upon my initial visit to her site -- covering a variety of life topics -- I found that I disagreed with one of the very first posts I read. But, because she is such a thoughtful writer, I kept reading. I appreciated her perspective even when my viewpoint was different and ultimately I was hooked! Still, it's only been in recent days that Cheryl was added to my "brave bloggers" list ... and that's because she had enough inner strength to admit -- without apology or excuse -- that's she's something of a perfectionist. Cheryl was able to honestly, but succinctly, discuss this personal challenge. Realizing she's not alone, Cheryl also invites input which I, for one, am happy to offer as perfectionism is something that's also a stumbling block for me more often than I care to admit. (And, Cheryl, I want you to know that I'm writing this without the use of a spell-checker!)

Hmmm ... someone in a position of adversity finds the courage to undertake a challenge for the common good. It's the definition of a hero ... and it sounds like Cheryl -- and others like her -- to me!

Let's talk about those "others." Some blogs are completely built on such bravery. They include:

• Merely Me's Multiple Synchronicities (and sclerosis) about life struggles with illness
• Free to be Me with ADHD, a blog about accepting this attention span disorder
• Storied Mind, a blog relating to depression

Perhaps a tad less courageous (it's anonymous), is a blog that let's us all commiserate with others or laugh at our mutual imperfections: I am Neurotic publishes anonymous postings about neurotic tendencies any one of us might have. As such, it's a means for the rest of us -- those not quite so brave -- to share as well!

Years ago I was asked who my heroes were. I struggled for weeks and finally had to admit that I had none. That has now changed for me. These writers and their blogs are wonderful examples of personal heroism by taking the lead on such inner honesty! And so I salute them ... and encourage you to visit their sites ... if you dare to share!

What issue(s) do you struggle with?  What has your experience with it taught you about yourself? About life and its challenges?

Comments

[Brenda replies]

Tammy -- I appreciate your comments! I've been writing for media and businesses for years, but finding my own voice has been a journey all its own!

Cheryl -- A lot of folks have noted Internet trouble recently, so hope the problem has been cleared up. At any rate, yes, this is one subject I am passionate about! I've simply read too many blogs that might as well publish one word, "ditto." And I've been exposed to too many experts that are formally educated on their issues, but don't have that "in the trenches" experience. Maybe it's me, but I just can't relate to that!

merelyme -- I'm wishing now that I had broadened my description of your blog. The moods topic you're covering is really universal!

Max Coutinho -- It would be interesting to find out how many bloggers find their writing cathartic!

paisley -- I believe you are quite correct that, for the author, "it is not so much about the effect it has on the reader,, so much as it is in the ability to put some semblance of order to the pattern of thought." The vicarious value (what the reader gets out of it) is probably a secondary phenomenon ... but still can serve that same function, helping us understand existing issues in whole new ways.

[Tammy Warren]

Thank you so much for this post. I run across comments from time to time that you make on other blogs. You are a great writer. I love your expression and honesty that you portray.

[Cheryl Wright]

There was some Internet trouble yesterday and I didn't get to read the whole post. Gosh Brenda, you really "went to town" with this didn't you? I am honored to be included on your BB list.

I know though, that even on our bravest days, doing our bravest deeds, we are simply acknowledging our personal imperfections, living full lives in spite of them and reaching our out hands to help others do the same.

Have a great weekend
Cheryl

[merelyme]

thank you so much for this mention. i am so happy for the links to others. i am lost within their words.

[Max Coutinho]

Hey Brenda,

It is brave indeed to expose one's personal issues in a blog; and I think that by doing so many people get help and practice catharsis - which is very good.

Blessed be all the souls that you have mentioned here and all alike :D!

Cheers

[paisley]

for me,, expository writing has always been cathartic.. it is not so much about the effect it has on the reader,, so much as it is in the ability to put some semblance of order to the pattern of thought... just realizing the "problem" isn't enough,, one needs to act,, and sometimes that becomes easier for me if i see it all written out and can view it in its entirety,, instead of little snippets which is usually how the brain feed them back to us.....